But I notice that some women definitely take steps to minimize, like keeping it completely bare or giving it a surreptitious wipe down before we get busy. I’m assuming that those ladies who, while maintaining some level of bush and an active lifestyle, are willing to wear jeans all day in the summer then come over and sit on my face probably think pretty highly of it to let it rip like that. The way my partners feel about their own scent differs from person to person. There’s not really much left to talk about after that. Now, as a polyamorous adult living in Brooklyn, while I don’t always say outright that I love the smell of vagina with new partners, I think they get the idea that I’m into it when I turn them over, bury my nose in them, and just go nuts. But even before I had actually done anything with a woman, simply from fantasizing in high school, I knew that I was really turned on by the idea of going down on women - specifically tasting and smelling the whole situation. "The first time I got to third base, when I was in college, I kept licking my fingers because it tasted incredible.
Thinks it smells like: “Sweat and white wine” Ruben Chamorro Matt, 35, a computer programmer in Brooklyn
The whole concept that some men don’t love the smell of vagina kind of surprises me… I guess I’ve been walking around assuming we all did, as I suppose it’s something in our chemistry that the smell is just meant to make you want to have sex… It just adds to the attraction!" I always volunteer to go down on women… I mean… some men don’t? Though I have met the rare woman who said their clit was too sensitive for oral. Whoever I’m sleeping with is happy that I have no qualms spending a lot of time going down on her. So it was a win-win! Then she admitted that the biggest detractor for her ever playing with other women is that she couldn’t get past the smell of pussy. said that she was glad I loved it, because she loved being eaten out. I wish I had the self confidence I have now when I was a bit younger. Years later, I finally told a woman how much I loved her smell. I hid those jeans by the side of my bed and would smell them and masturbate every night for like a week straight! It’s a little like fresh sweat after a woman’s done exercising, but there’s always more to it. It’s tough to describe it, because it smells so uniquely like what it is. I don’t even know what drove me to smell it, but once I had, I couldn’t stop. I didn’t notice until I got home that night that there was a white crust on the thigh of my jeans. The thing was, her panties were super thin, and she got super wet. We made out and fooled around, but kept all the touching above underwear. "My first memory of the smell of pussy is the first time my high school girlfriend was grinding against my thigh with nothing but panties on. Thinks it smells like: “Sweat, urine, and human nature.” Ruben Chamorro Jay, 25, a musician in Seattle, Washington To learn more about what’s so stimulating about the scent of pussy, spoke to five men who can’t get enough.
“People release pheromones, a unique scent that may often be sexually stimulating.” “Lots of men enjoy the smell of a vagina, particularly when the woman is aroused and lubricated,” explains Dr. Beyond understanding that the smell of vagina is normal, many guys are incredibly turned on by the scent. Rest assured, any man worth your time won’t mock your scent. “But nothing about vagina makes it intrinsically smelly except for ignorant assumptions of sex negative people.” Michael Aaron, an NYC-based sex therapist and author of the upcoming book Modern Sexuality. “Any body part can have a bad odor if there is an infection or if the individual practices poor hygiene,” says Dr. The common fear that your vagina smells "bad" is rooted in sexist, old-fashioned culture rather than fact. While there’s nothing wrong with hot showers and good hygiene, the vagina, a self-cleansing organ, really doesn’t need to be filled with suds to function healthily. While getting eaten out is hailed as the pinnacle of female pleasure, if you’re a woman who’s insecure about smells, it can be hard to enjoy and relax without bathing first.